Treated Differently

Pernah gak sih di perlakukan berbeda? dont you feel unfair when you are treated that way? 

aku pernah denger quote;

"When you do something noble no one sees you, but when you do something harmful everyone turns their faces on you"

itu emang bener. Sometimes, people ngeperlakuin kita dengan cara yang berbeda dari yang lain hanya karena satu masalah. Aku bingung kenapa, apa karena people feel hard on moving on? on forgiving? on forgetting? i mean, masa lalu ya masa lalu kan? kita hanya bisa kembali kalau ada mesinnya. Unfortunately, there is no time machine so we obviously cant. Sometimes, people cuman bisa ngeliat dan langsung ngenilai kita dari kesalahan yang kita bikin. Dan kadang mereka gabisa ngeliat kebaikan seseorang disisi lain. what's going on to their eyes? whats going on to their mindset? dan dengan sekejap mereka ninggalin kita begitu aja. Only the good ones will stay. will stay and gives you another chance. because they trust you. tapi, kita juga harus bisa ngebangun kepercayaan satu sama lain. we gotta be a trustworthy kind of person. Karena kepercayaan itu sekarang susah untuk didapatkan. Kalau kepercayaan itu dijual, harganya pasti bikin mangap. It must be super expensive. But you know, hidup itu emang gak sepenuhnya bakal mudah. Pasti kita pernahlah ngerasain yang namanya seperti itu. 

"I dont like being treated differently by someone who claims to care.."

You cannot let one problem ruins a friendship. and that is why you cannot let one problem makes you act differently to a person. because if you wanna be a good person then be fair. and that is not a fair thing. Kalau dilihat kan aneh when you smile and laugh and treat the person A nicely, but different with the person B. Besides, kita juga gak bisa dengki selamanya. But if we act nice but we actually hate that person is also wrong. That's the same thing as faking. I suggest, kita lebih baik ngelurusin masalah. Masalah juga jangan dibiarin begitu aja. Masalah yang gak diselesein dari awal bakal ngehantuin hidup kita. Do you wanna die with unsolved problems? do you? obviously not. so yea, harus dong menyelesaikan masalah. Lagipula menyelesaikan masalah gives good and positive impacts to the people around. No more hates, dislikes, faking or awkward situations and things like that.

I am sure that God has unexpected plans for us. And those plans are the best.